the money shot

topic posted Mon, June 21, 2004 - 1:15 PM by 
a while back there was discussion on this tribe about a website "for the girls," which makes a lot of assumptions about what women want to see in porn. right now there is an article circulating around the net authored by that site's webmistress about "the money shot," or facial comeshots.

the author is the webmistress of many porn sites "for women" and "spends a lot of time editing out the money shot" because she thinks that "millions" of women hate to see it.

what do all of you think? do you love, hate, don't care about seeing facial ejaculations or "the money shot"? does it gross you out, or make you wet?

here is her article:
  • Re: the money shot

    Mon, June 21, 2004 - 10:39 PM
    i think i don't care too much, but lean towards the "how stupid" side. i can't see what it is that men would get all hot about... maybe it's the territorial thing... 'look, i sprayed on her!'.

    it doesn't make me wet at all...

    • Re: the money shot

      Tue, June 22, 2004 - 8:24 AM
      I like Ra comment.

      some of it maybe the fanasty - "I want a woman to be so into me, that she even want my cum on her"

      Or it goes along with the humilating/ insulting woman - wanting a woman they can control - and get all messy and they won't/ can't say anything about it.

      I depends on wheater you look on the good side or bad side of things - I think it depends on the guy.
    • Re: the money shot

      Fri, March 25, 2005 - 5:38 PM

      Lol, I like to see when she takes his cum in her mouth but the face is just too much. My boyfriend says that cum is something of significance to men because it is representative of the culmination of his desire and feelings manifested in physical form and given forth if you will. I think the face is a very intimate area and more specifically an area of conciousness. If anything the facial can by symptomatic of a man who feels he can't get a woman to recognize, desire or appreciate his cum in any other way, all of which is very important to men it seems.
  • Re: the money shot

    Tue, June 22, 2004 - 10:56 AM
    I don't hate to see it, but I just don't get it...just does absolutely nothing to turn me on...kind of a waste of screen time...I guess it's also because I mostly like the suspense leading up to the Big Moment - that feeling of tension. Most porn gets to the action way too quickly for my taste...
    • Re: the money shot

      Tue, June 22, 2004 - 3:17 PM
      i agree with all the responses so far. it does nothing for me at all. this is similar to the peeing on women thing - whats it called, golden stream??? anyway, yeah, not a turn on!
  • Re: the money shot

    Tue, June 22, 2004 - 3:40 PM
    I want to see it especially if it mean the girl coming, ejaculating all over. I'm not big on boy spunk myself being mostly dyke but I feel it is weird when they edit it out. They don't that kind of stuff in gay boy porn and loads of women watch that. I hate the idea that women don't like hardcore sex, don't want close ups of penetration, etc. If i just wanted to see someone's face when having sex I would just look at my lovers or my wife's face. When it's genuine and the performers are both enjoying themselves then I think it is great to finish with a money shot.

    I don't get why girls expecially straight girl are so iked by something that they themselve do?
    • Re: the money shot

      Wed, June 23, 2004 - 3:16 PM
      Well, here is my two cents... I like the money shot. I like watching the come fly especially if it's a hot sex scene. But the funny part is, I only like it on its own, out of context. For instance, I'll fast forward to the end of sex scenes to watch the guy come and jack off, because the sex scenes have *nothing* to do with the money shot. I just like to watch the guy jack and have an orgasm. Does this make any sense?

      If I want to watch actual hot sex, I'm usually out of luck except in the rare instances when a film like Marie and Jack or the the Fashionistas comes along, where the fucking is the turn on. But usually fucking in porn is wretched and fake, and then the guy jacks onto the girl's face, and it's a weird pointless combination of mechanical sex acts. The money shot doesn't seem connected to sex in porn. *unless watching a guy jack off turns you on,* which it does for me.

      I don't find facial ejaculation gross, or a turn on, it's actually painfully boring and predicatble. Yawn. Like watching action films or a TV show and have them end the exact same way every time.

      I do like when blowjobs end in oral ejaculation that I can see.

      Watching a girl come (and squirt) turns me on just as much as watching a guy come.

      I second Demad's post:
      > When it's genuine and the performers are both enjoying themselves then I think it is great to finish with a money shot.
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      Re: the money shot

      Mon, July 5, 2004 - 3:33 PM
      tania turtle needs a teleporter said:
      "I don't get why girls expecially straight girl are so iked by something that they themselve do?"

      Agreed! What's so wrong about it? Girls DO let guys do this to them. probably more than would ever admit to it. And I don't think it's *nearly* the same as a golden shower. My only issue about it is that I read somewhere that if you get cum in your eye you can get a nasty infection, and I tend to think about that when I see it. But sometimes when the mood is right you can get into it and it's exciting. Mainly if the guy you're with really turns you on, because it is a major male fantasy. So I don't mind seeing it in porn.
  • Re: the money shot

    Wed, June 30, 2004 - 10:39 AM
    i might be in the minority here, but i have a very knee-jerk "ew, gross" reaction to facial comeshots. i just finished watching a screener of "velvet thrust" which is made by and for straight women and i was kind of disappointed that they decided to include facials.

    i guess the problem i have is that i have no desire to get a face full of jizz and i haven't met any women who admit to liking it (i'm sure they're out there somewhere), so it just seems like degradation to me...which is a gut feeling, not a well thought out political position i suppose.
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      Re: the money shot

      Wed, June 30, 2004 - 11:32 AM
      I agree with alison...It's definitely a concept (mostly) for men. The thought of some guy spunking on my face (or in my eye!)cools me down to about zero. Though, it may be hot for women who are into sexual degradation. Where's the "girls who like cum face" tribe?
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        Re: the money shot

        Mon, July 5, 2004 - 8:39 PM
        I don't think it's degrading. Some people are of the mind that for a woman to give head is degrading, and I think that is a silly notion as well.

        Try this concept on for size: Perhaps by fulfilling a fantasy that men are SO into, you actually gain power. I've only participated in that particular activity a small number of times, but I'll tell you something. The guys I let do it were hands down willing to bend over backwards to please me in bed afterwards. And that was not my motivation in doing it, but it ended up being the result. Sometimes giving a little can yield a lot.
        • Re: the money shot

          Mon, July 5, 2004 - 9:20 PM
          I agree that in most porn that you find out there, the money shot is a very predictable end to a usually bad movie anyway.

          While I am not opposed to ejaculation in the face if it is a turn on for the people (whatever configuration that may be) I think that it may be more fun to incorporate that more into a scene without being an end result. But that would be a different kind of porn from the average b/c we are thinking that there is more sex after ejaculation.

          For a woman to ejaculate, there is always room for more, and more, and more to happen. Perhaps that is a huge difference.
        • Re: the money shot

          Mon, July 5, 2004 - 9:30 PM
          I agree with you Laura. I get excited by my partners excitement. If something like that makes them so hot, and it doesn't bother me I don't see the harm in going along with it every now and then.

          As for the money shot in porn:
          It doesn't excite me, but it is visual proof that at least one of them managed to cum.
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            Re: the money shot

            Mon, July 5, 2004 - 9:56 PM
            "It doesn't excite me, but it is visual proof that at least one of them managed to cum."

            *lol* That's funny! And I agree. I could take or leave the money shot in porn, but I thought it was important to make the point I did because the opinions I was hearing about it freaked me out a little. But we're all entitled to our own opinion.

            And thanks for backing me up, missy!
        • Re: the money shot

          Tue, July 6, 2004 - 1:25 PM
          i wouldn't say that giving head is degrading. i enjoy giving my partner pleasure just like everyone else. but giving head is clearly physically pleasurable. the pleasure of ejaculating onto someone's face is psychological. so where does the impulse come from? i'd imagine orgasming onto just about any object is just as physically pleasurable as any why the fascination with jizzing on to women's faces?
        • Re: the money shot

          Thu, January 27, 2005 - 1:47 PM
          I have to agree with Veronica.
          It sounds like I am DEFINITELY in the minority here, but I REALLY like it when guys cum on my face. I like the feeling, the sensation, and frankly, it just feels sexy!

          My vote... facial cumshots.. hurrah!
  • Re: the money shot

    Tue, July 20, 2004 - 10:14 AM
    So I'm of two minds on the subject. It depends on a whole lot of factors. It's messy, it's hard to control the trajectory of, and one's face is rather sensitive in various ways (the eye infection issue, for example). So I almost never enjoy facial cumshots. Again, it depends. I have seen some where the woman genuinely appeared to be interested in it, in a "hey, this is a new fun sexual experiment" sort of way. Those few scenes generally don't cool me off, and can turn me on. As for other areas, those I'm much more likely to find attractive. Breasts, belly, lower back generally do it for me if she seems to be into it. And if it's not unattractive cum. I can't abide lumpy ejaculate, thank you. *shudder*

    Basically... it all depends on a lot of things, like if they both seem to be enjoying it, if the cum is attractive, the "spurt rate" of the cum, where he's cumming on her, etc.
    • Re: the money shot

      Sun, January 23, 2005 - 5:15 PM
      I usually ff through the pop shot. Mostly because I hate watching the guy jerk off. When the female does it, it's tolerable. It doesn't turn me on, though. And if it's anywhere other than in the mouth, it's a waste of time. LOL

      And Go* forbid it comes out all clumpy looking. Ick!
      • Re: the money shot

        Mon, January 24, 2005 - 11:32 PM
        I just love the diversity here ~ I'll take the money shot anytime over an internal load! I'll admit to being turned on by a load blown acrossed my face, and so watching it in films excites me too. Though if expecting facial I'll throw on my glasses & watch how happy he blows it! Just don't make me watch an internal ~ vaginal that is, I just am not a girl who gets off on letting a man cum in my pussy, and so that always freaks me out! I always think the man must not know his cock very well if he doesnt have time 2 pull it out before he cums ~ yes I know they plan those shots too but it still creeps me to see jizz dripping out a pretty pussy
        • Re: the money shot

          Tue, January 25, 2005 - 12:00 AM
          It depends on a lot of factors, for me. I don't mind the internal cum shot, or the facial. What I hat eis when the woman is waiting there for, what seems like, hours with an open-mouthed, gaping fish expression on her face. Ick!
          If the cum is mostly towards her mouth, and it does not have that excruciatingly painful waiting period, it can be hot. It usually is not sexually charged for me. Even if it is terribly gross, editing it is not a solution. That just leaves an annoying blank, which does not work at all. I don't want someone else to decide for me, what they think is unappealing and snip it out before I even get a chance to decide.
          I have never seen a video of a woman cumming over another woman's face, or even a guy for that matter. That, I'd like to see!
      • Re: the money shot

        Sat, February 5, 2005 - 4:18 PM
        Definitely not a turn-on for me either... it just doesn't do anything for me at all.
        And it's even worse if the guy is suddenly jerking off with the woman just *sitting* there for ages with her tongue out (and her oh-so-natural epoxy-dome tits at attention).

        If it seemed less contrived, and more like something the woman actually wanted to try out...maybe. But you won't catch me doing that one myself ;) Like Linda said; if it's anywhere other than in the mouth, it's a waste of time.
  • Re: the money shot

    Mon, April 11, 2005 - 1:52 PM
    i don't mind the money shot....i don't mind seeing a guy come on a woman's face. and it makes me really hot when my man comes on my face.

    BUT one woman on here mentioned that she would much rather see the MANS face when he is coming, and it may sound really silly, but i never even thought about that in porn. thats something you NEVER see! i think that i would much rather see the man's face when he is coming, rather than seeing any more cum on a woman's face. its really quite uninteresting at this point.
  • Re: the money shot

    Tue, April 12, 2005 - 5:01 PM
    Interesting that this topic is still going.

    I still stand by my comments that the money shot is bloody annoying and that it's cliched and overdone and distracting and I really hate watching a woman kneeling there looking like an idiot while a guy masturbates over her.

    And I still think that millions of women will agree with me. Obviously millions of others won't, judging by the comments on this thread. Them's the breaks :)

    I still would rather see a man's face when he comes.

    I watched a scene with Jilly Kelly and Julian yesterday. It finished with her giving him a handjob, and we got to see all of him when he came - including the wonderful expression on his face. So it fulfilled the requirement of seeing sperm but it also was a vaguely realistic scenario that showed a couple sharing sex and a guy in his moment of vulnerability.

    If *that* become the standard money shot, I could get to like them.

    Of course, it still doesn't overcome the issue that a female orgasm isn't considered to be a necessity in porn. I don't care if she's faking it, at least let me see her get off!
    • Re: the money shot

      Fri, April 15, 2005 - 8:40 AM
      I would rather see the guy cum on her breasts or some other 'hot' part of her body - I am not offended by cumming on the face, but I agree it is overdone and it is for the male viewers anyway....what I really would like to see is more of a focus on the woman getting that unrealistic? Maybe I'm crazy, but don't you think it's just as much of a turn on for the guy to see the girl get off? I guess I just want to see the women getting theirs!

      • Re: the money shot

        Fri, April 15, 2005 - 8:57 AM
        I like seeing 'the money shot' in porn - and prefer it when it's into a mouth, on the face, tits, etc.

        Obviously, it's better when the people involved are into it and expressive and it's not just a silly random ending.

        But I also think it's hot in real life and not a big peculiarity. I don't think it's degrading, and I certainly come all over my boyfriend's face rather frequently.
        • Re: the money shot

          Fri, April 15, 2005 - 10:14 AM
          I love the money shot, but thats cause, well, I love the money shot! I love the taste of it, the feel of it, I love the way it dribbles down my neck. I do agree though that I like the 'full body shot' in porn better so that you can see the mans face, cause thats what I'm usually looking at when it happens to me! I *definitely* DO NOT find it degrading.

          Facials in porn aren't going anywhere though, unless they start putting camera's inside a womans pussy, its the only way you actually get to see the man cum.
          • Re: the money shot

            Fri, April 15, 2005 - 10:28 AM
            Whoops! I didn't mean to imply that facials are the only way - there are other places he could aim. But I do still like the money shot :D
            • Re: the money shot

              Thu, August 4, 2005 - 5:30 AM
              Wow! I am so pleased I'm not the only one. I've always kept quite about what I like because people think it's weird or gross.

              I simply love cum - in or/and on me.

              Mind you, only in a good Aussie summer - when it gets cold too quickly kinda ruins the moment.
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                Re: the money shot

                Thu, August 4, 2005 - 9:08 AM
                being that I like to write M/M and Bisexual erotica...sometimes cum shots is good for dramatic effects..but I also don't have the character put cum in another person's face (whether that person's a woman or not)...

                Also another item that's prevalent in lesbian/bisexual porn that some women just don't get...Women that like to suck on the dildos before doing the strap on sex... Some people either think it's cuz Guys get off on that (with girl/girl porn that's marketed for straight guys) or it's an attempt to lube up the dildo. But in lesbian porn that's made by lesbians for lesbians... there are a lot of scenes when the women actually gives the dildo and nice long blow job (seems different that the girl/girl porn made for guys)

                I find it hot actually...

                So I think different things turn women on...and I think more and more women are becoming more brave in admitting their kinks...than in the past
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    Re: the money shot

    Thu, September 15, 2005 - 6:35 PM
    I does nothing for me to see it. But i'm into allowing it to fullfill the unselfish man's fantasy. Once I had an affair with this wild Tico guy and in one of our sessions he pulled out of me when I was climaxing and spread his seed all over my face. I wouldn't have been so bothered by it except 1) he didn't wait for me to finish cuming and 2) cum got in my eye

    FYI - It stings!!!!

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