Since when have you ever met a guy who was perfect in *every* other aspect? One who met all 999 out of 1000 qualifications on your checklist, and then had a smaller than preferable cock...

It's a give and take, as far as I'm concerned, a balance. If most of the odds are in his favor (60/40), I'm attracted to him, regardless of dick size. If not, I usually don't date him for very long. However, dick size is one of the biggest mitigating factors (pun intended), but not because I'm shallow. Because I'm deep. Very deep - if I'm not satisfied when we fuck, it's not fair to me or to him. If he has a small cock and a great personality, then he's alright, you know? But my ex was a real manipulative prick (again, pun intended) with a huge dick. The only thing I miss about him is his dick ... and the fact that he let me fuck him up the ass...

(PS - I use dildoes whether they have big dicks or not! ;-)

Oh god. That's an absolute dealbreaker. I'm so incredibly oral, if I see or touch hard cock, it's pretty much gotta go in my mouth very soon. Luckily I only ever met one or two guys who didn't like it, and that was ages ago. I've been known to beg my boyfriend for it (he's also a total oral fetishist, so we actually have arguments about who gets to go down first!). He's not Gigantor or anything, but he's got a really nice cock. I'm weird in that what is less important to me than size is if it's "well-formed," if that makes any sense. Smooth, not too bumpy or scarred...just...nice, you know?

Compare this to my ex-husband, who was small, and worse than that, badly scarred and tightly circ'd, very little extra flesh to play with, just a stiff, super tight little erection. AND he didn't really like to go down, so consequently of course he sucked at it.

I am SO spoiled now.

However, I have to say that love is the greatest aphrodesiac, and it can get you past ALL of that. Cause boy did I love to fuck him back when things were good with us, and that when on for years.

So where you are with preference really has to do with the relationship, I think. If they're just fuck-buddies, FWB, a fling, or what have you, then yeah, they better bring it - nice cock, mad oral skillz. But if you're all in love and all that happy crap, you're high on endorphins, and all that doesn't really matter so much.

Luckily, I've got the sweet sweet high of love, AND a nice cock and hungry mouth to go with it. Yay!

yeah i forgive ya. my mind goes mush when i am thinkin about girth