what's your flavor?

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I've been thinking a lot about the varying opinions on different styles of porn, and i'm wondering what makes porn hot for you? If you could make an ideal (for you) porn, what would it consist of?

I've been toying with the idea of starting a porn production company with a (straight) friend of mine, to make porn for women by women- but to incorporate many different tastes- straight, vanilla, bdsm, etc. something for everyone. Is this totally unrealistic?

for me, i have to admit that I would LOVE sugar high glitter city- funny porn is my thing- but it's not so hot for me since i know a bunch of the ladies in it and it made me never want to play pool at the lex again...

anyway, curious about what y'all think about the possibility of making hot intelligent funny porn for women who feel left out of a lot of the porn out there.
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    Re: what's your flavor?

    Mon, March 22, 2004 - 10:06 PM
    "Hot intelligent funny" would push all the right buttons for me.

    I haven't seen Sugar High Glitter City (it's not available on DVD), but here's the short list of what I love (and hate).

    • A little context (but not too much). As far as I'm concerned, Outlaw Ladies got this exactly right. The theme is women who get off by breaking social conventions. Each section could stand on its own, and there are no well-defined leading roles. Yet the scenes weave together perfectly, thanks to wickedly humorous segments where the characters' paths crisscross during the course of a day. The feel is very different from heavily plotted features; if you want to see a good discussion of why those typically fail, there's one taking place here: www.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/t...5536.htm

    • Realness. Genuineness. In the physiques, emotions, behavior of the performers.

    • Queerness, quirkiness, pansexuality.

    • Thoughtful music that actually reflects what's happening in the scene. Mixed at a volume that doesn't obscure the sex sounds. I'd say "no music," but that isn't a practical idea for most adult productions.

    • Sex-positive chemistry. No judgments toward anyone who truly lives a BDSM or fetish lifestyle, and I'm not asking for artificial, overly strict constraints (à la Candida Royalle). But at the same time, I don't relate to the aggressive verbal attacking/slapping/choking (and worse) trend which has become frighteningly common. That's completely unexciting and anti-erotic to me. I suppose it's one way to achieve a connection, but I can think more inventive, imaginative, assertive/naughty/playful ways to achieve intimacy and arousal.

    • Most importantly, respect. There are movies I won't look at because the lurid language/imagery on the cover is so abusive that it disturbs me. Yuck. It makes me sad that I even have to mention it.
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      Mon, March 22, 2004 - 11:50 PM
      quirkiness. that's a great word. it's a lot of what i like about sugar high.

      i'm really interested to figure out if it's possible to make porn for straight women that has that kind of sensibility. I feel like there are a few people trying to make some good hardcore porn for dykes, but most people making porn for straight women are doing it all soft focus bs softcore and i don't like it. it's boring and homogenous.

      i want playful porn.
      • Re: what's your flavor?

        Tue, March 23, 2004 - 3:34 AM
        Yes! Yes, yes, yes. Hold on let me go to my window and shout that really loudly..."I WANT PLAYFUL PORN and I want it now!"
        Honestly if I have to watch another film in which folks sneer at each other I'm going to do myself in. I want porn where people are laughing and having fun. Make it humorous, make it explicit, make it hot and please make it soon!

        My ideal porn would be the kind of porn that effects me in the same way as quality written porn does, I want to swoon and clench my thighs at the deliciousness of it. I'd like to see some clever modern day seductresses with funny, smart mouths, saying and doing stuff that lands them into all sorts of wonderful "trouble". Some mischief makers who know how to raise hell in the best possible way...
      • Re: what's your flavor?

        Tue, March 30, 2004 - 10:46 PM
        Playful porn...what a concept!

        The concept of playfulness, that's what keeps me going to burlesque shows instead of strip clubs these days. Having been around many different aspects of the sex industry, I can attest to the fact that it can, at times, be a grind...in a bad way. It's refreshing to go to a show where the performers have put a lot of thought into what they're doing and it's done with a wink and a giggle.

        I think the time is right for some light hearted porn that's not some bad attempt at screwball comedy featuring *shudder* Ron Jeremy.

        If you make your movie I'll watch it...hell, I'll even star in part of it, if you want a good natured dominant ;)

        ~ Xtina
        • Re: what's your flavor?

          Thu, April 1, 2004 - 4:54 PM
          What? People are supposed to *gasp* have >>FUN<< having sex? Shit! What a concept!

          One of these days, I really am going to start my own porn production company. I've been threatening for years and the posts on this site make me even more convinced!
        • Re: what's your flavor?

          Fri, April 2, 2004 - 4:17 AM
          Ms Many Names, I've just had this vision of a hardcore romance flick with a sort of 1940's feel ala Kath Hepburn/Spencer Tracy, smart mouth, sassy broad type,plus handsome newspaper editor plus various office staff of either sex scenario...that leads to a visit to report on a very sexy burlesque show showing in town that leads to...? :)
          • Re: what's your flavor?

            Sun, April 4, 2004 - 7:51 PM
            ..backstage mayhem!!

            I like the way you think, Loraine! I wanna be the Mistressof Ceremonies at the sexy burlesque show! We can figure in some kind of plot twist where when the show comes to town, all the librarians disappear; of course, they've all been seduced by the MC and absorbed as part of the act.

            I think we've got us an AVN award winner ;)

            ~Selina
            • Re: what's your flavor?

              Mon, April 5, 2004 - 5:57 AM
              Selina, you're it, The Mistress of Ceremonies...bring on the satin, the sequins, high heels and feather boas. Crank up the music for some risque bump and grind...dig up some smart talking dames ala Mae West and some funny men with a Groucho Marx sense of humour. And those naughty librarians...they're so easily led astray.

              I'm with you on the award, it's a certain, we'll be there, in fact I'm choosing my frock as we speak. :)
  • Re: what's your flavor?

    Mon, April 5, 2004 - 4:37 PM
    I'm new here and have honestly only seen a few pornos, but, what I like is REAL sex. I don't want a show, I don't care about the clothes, etc. I want it to seem real, no actors, no plot, just real sex. Also, real women who are really having fun, seem to want to be there and are enjoying themselves. That said, the kinkier and nastier the better!
    • Re: what's your flavor?

      Thu, April 8, 2004 - 12:57 AM
      Don't know why, I love to watch men masturbate.
      I fantasize about it!
      I also like to see big citted women.
      Odd but true.
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        Re: what's your flavor?

        Thu, April 8, 2004 - 7:24 AM
        Something just occurred to me.

        I've seen a straight scene in which a woman masturbates while fantasizing about a man she's just encountered. (Missy in Tell Me What You Want.)

        I've seen a gay scene in which a man masturbates while fantasizing about a man he's just encountered (Casey Donovan in Boys in the Sand.)

        I've NEVER seen a straight scene in which a man masturbates while fantasizing about a woman he's just encountered.

        Hmmm...
  • Re: what's your flavor?

    Thu, April 8, 2004 - 10:10 AM
    Anything with a strong D/s dynamic but with some actually thinking behind it. It's especially hot if the D/s is going on outside of the bedroom as well and has been made by someone who has a clue about the whole thing. 'Secretary' was porn for me. The physical act of watching people fuck doesn't do it for me unless I can see the whole mental game behind it. I know it's cliched but 9 1/2 weeks pushes my buttons also.
  • Re: what's your flavor?

    Thu, April 29, 2004 - 7:16 PM
    Small breasts (more than a handful is too much)
    no men. unless he's normal. none of those body builders or nasty old guys who come out of the woods when the hot chicks are getting it on at a picnic.
    that's what I like.
  • Re: what's your flavor?

    Sat, March 5, 2005 - 8:28 PM
    hmmm...what makes porn hot for me? good question. one i'd love to answer.

    1. rocco siffredi - i love to watch the way he fucks a woman. he's just so in charge of things. i just think he is gorgeous. what i wouldnt do for a night (or an hour) with him. he is really the only man that i can think of who i enjoy watching.

    2. semi-rough sex. watching hardcore rough stuff, bdsm, doesnt really do it for me, but i like to see a little ass slapping or face slapping (if the woman is into it) during sex.

    3. i like the "gonzo" type porn out there, like seymore butts stuff. i like the feeling that i am really watching the action. i dont care about storylinesor fancy editing or any of that.

    4. hmmm....belladonna. i just discovered her after watching this scene of her and cytherea together. she is using a glass dildo and making cytherea squirt all over the place. in the video, her hair is really short. unfortunately i havent found any other clips of her with short hair. i just think she is so cute, with that gap in her teeth.

    5. watersports porn. i know its not everyones flavor, but i really enjoy watching a man piss. and i do enjoy watching a woman piss as well. i likewatersports vids with people who are really into it and enjoying themselves.

    6. gangbangs. the more cocks to look at, the better. i really like to see guys jerk off. sometimes the women dont seem to be so into it, which is really a drag. in the ggg videos there is this one woman, betty, who is really really into it, and she is a joy to watch as well. and quite adorable.

    7. sometimes im in the mood to watch women play with toys. vaginal insertions, anal insertions. depends on my mood. i kind of like to see larger dildoes being used rather than just average ones.

    8. sometimes i really am in the mood to see some ridiculously huge, totally fake boobs bouncing up and down and around.

    i know there are many more things i could add to the list. what else....? sometimes i like to watch gay porn, with young hot skinny guys. big muscular hairy men dont do it for me at all. i like seeing women in latex. um....im sure tehres more, but i think i just about covered the main points.

    happy viewing!

    lisabel
    • Re: what's your flavor?

      Thu, March 10, 2005 - 2:14 AM
      Porn with women of ALL sizes for me please! I am totally unturned on by siliconed baywatch wannabes raising their big false eyelashed peepers while they're licking up snatch or sucking down cock. Real women, volutpuous women actually having sex and not just performing sex would be so refreshing! Maybe then I could actually watch a porn without laughing my ass off and fast forwarding through the whole damn thing!
      • Re: what's your flavor?

        Wed, March 23, 2005 - 10:05 PM
        I agree totally and find it hard to imagine that anyone (male or female) gets off watching some made up babe more intent on the camera and on her partner.

        What does it for me in terms of porn is the same thing that does it for me in real life: partner's who are obviously very into each other's pleasure and the moment. Full-blown earthy passion that blots out any other kind of awareness.

        Give me something a bit original, too. The "Give me your big cock' dialogue throughout most porn really grates on me. Much preferable is something like Michael Ninn's 'In The Garden of Shadows' dreamy background monologue. Who knew that porn could contain a discourse on the nature of God and of good and evil? Yeah, that mix of earthy sex and spiritual (angst) philosophy was downright potent for me!


  • Re: what's your flavor?

    Fri, March 11, 2005 - 7:09 AM
    I like rough, raw fucking with all participants getting off (for real) -- especially if it is despite their best efforts to maintain control. I want to see girls pushed hard and going over hard. (This is not distributable, in my experience, unless it's "art" and indie and preferably in a language other than English. Or boy-boy.)

    I like hardcore BDSM that looks like what my friends and I actually do. (Not distributable period.) If it's hardcore BDSM, the genders don't really matter to me.

    I like real fisting and handballing. None of this two fingers crap. (Ditto.)

    I like a wide variety of bodies. Big girls. Scrawny girls. Old girls, young girls, scarred girls, tattooed girls, creamy-skinned sweet girls, redheads, dark-skinned girls. (Blondes with store-bought tits are OK, but I've prettymuch had my fill, ya know what I mean?) Finding girls outside the porn standard who are willing to do it in front of the camera is not easy, in my experience.

    I honestly don't give a damn about context and story. I just want to see genuine pleasure and pain-pleasure, real sweat and tears and blood. In fact, I'd love to see menstrual blood. MMmmmmm, menstrual blood.

    Three guesses why I'm not making porn any more...
  • Re: what's your flavor?

    Thu, April 7, 2005 - 1:32 AM
    Rachael... here's hoping you can get something happening :)

    There's obviously a lot of tastes here. I'm just going to throw my thoughts into the mix.

    I want to see
    * Good looking guys, girls who aren't just anorexic sticks
    * Men giving really good cunnilingus.
    * Couples looking at each other, doing all the little intimate things that make sex great, be it pressing foreheads together, kissing, gentle touches.. real stuff
    * If the guy comes, I infinitely prefer to see his face, not what comes out of his dick. To me his facial expression is much more interesting and sexy
    * I want the woman to come every time.
    * Music that suits the scene and doesn't sound tacky.

    To be honest, I can copile a big list of "what I don't want to see", simply because I've seen too much porn and it's all the little things that irk me.
    * No "by the numbers" changes of position e.g reverse cowgirl for 5.2 minutes, automatically followed by doggy for 5.2 minutes...
    * If the woman is going to moan, she needs to mean it. And not do it with monotonous regularity (as mentioned elsewhere: nnnyeah, nnnyeah, nnnyeah... ad infinitum)
    * No cliched dialogue
    * Take the bloody high heels off

    Oh, I could go on, but I won't. :)

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